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2.  Speaking as a (latina) woman who has always been curvey (read: huge boobs), i get annoyed when women are all FAT IS BEAUTIFUL.  You know what’s ugly?  A fucking heart attack.  You know whats not sexy?  Being short of breath after a few flights of stairs.  Being healthy is what’s important.  Being strong.  That might not necessarily mean looking like a supermodel, but i dont know that celebrating fat people is the right answer either.

(Having said that my starvation diet is working! I lost another 5 lbs!)

I’m confused. Did I say that being morbidly obese is a good thing or that “fat” is necessarily “beautiful”? I was saying that worrying about “fatness” is ultimately a waste of time and was just saying that no matter WHAT our weight is, there will be people who say that is “fat.”

The real issue is not how “fat” we are; the issue is that misogynists will always critique our bodies or find something “wrong” so we don’t, you know, have productive lives.

Hi. I’m fat. Not “curvy” or “shapely” or whatever word you want to throw out there to mean “not rail thin”. I. Am. Fat. I am so fucking sick of assholes on Tumblr and their fat hate. You don’t think my fat is beautiful? That’s fine. But give me a fucking break thinking that FAT = Going to die in 5 minutes and Skinny = Totally in shape and awesome. FUCK THAT SHIT. I am out of shape as hell but I do not have diabetes, high blood pressure, OR high cholesterol. I am fat and I am happy. I like food. Food is delicious and GOOD. I’m lazy. I joined a gym last year and I stopped going because I was too lazy and honestly, too self-concious because of all the fat haters in the world. So I said fuck it. But I’m not some sad fat girl crying and eating her feelings. So don’t celebrate me. I don’t give a fuck. I’ve got my sneaks, my iPhone and my sweet ass gadgets and shit, my friends and fuck everyone else.

  1. smalltowngayblog reblogged this from kiamatthews and added:
    Amen, Kia…It’s interesting how much airtime the fat issue is getting. Let’s try putting this into a historical/political...
  2. lynclair reblogged this from juliaallison
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  4. candrews reblogged this from juliaallison and added:
    that is the most enraging email i have read in a really long time. go fuck yourself, indeed. between jackasses like this...
  5. adipose reblogged this from kiamatthews
  6. themattsmith reblogged this from ameliamagritte and added:
    Get in line, Amelia, get in line.
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  8. winstonwolfe reblogged this from juliaallison and added:
    Call me naive but… The writer of the email is indefensible obviously. Maybe even deserves to have the email address...
  9. sarahbeara reblogged this from jgh and added:
    My other tumblr: adipose
  10. ryanluce reblogged this from nudawn and added:
    I think it’s even worse that you are sticking up for julia allison. And that you totally kissed her ass yesterday about...
  11. onesong reblogged this from kiamatthews and added:
    Bravo, KM. Here’s an idea, ladies—how about instead of blaming this enrique moron, we take a look at all the body...
  12. ameliamagritte reblogged this from kiamatthews and added:
    I heart kiamatthews.
  13. kiamatthews reblogged this from jgh and added:
    Hi. I’m fat. Not “curvy” or “shapely” or whatever word you want to throw out there to mean “not rail thin”. I. Am. Fat....
  14. barthel reblogged this from nudawn and added:
    taking a dump sexy. I’m sure there’s someone out there...attack sexy. (A fucking heart...
  15. dazzlingdelta reblogged this from jgh and added:
    haha nice. people calling each other fat is one of my pet peeves (as is thin girls calling themselves fat, youre not so...
  16. katoleary reblogged this from jgh and added:
    JGH put this beautifully. I have nothing to add. Wait, except: Please send a barrage of nasty but well-written emails to...
  17. edatrix reblogged this from jgh and added:
    well said, JGH, well said.
  18. guardianofgimcracks reblogged this from juliaallison and added:
    If you are looking for your calling—-THIS IS IT. There are so many girls and women who suffer from this type of abuse on...
  19. nicknoyes reblogged this from juliaallison and added:
    Enrique’s email to JA: mean. JA posting his email address for everyone on her (sizable) corner of the internet to...
  20. lifeasart reblogged this from juliaallison and added:
    AMEN. Seriously, who is this dude?
  21. fabulash reblogged this from juliaallison and added:
    Wooow. This man is truly a douchebag.
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