If you mark that you would strongly prefer to date someone of your own racial background, please keep it moving. Hey, look, it’s certainly a valid preference and even though I personally think it’s weird and a little bit racist I do understand, sociologically, why one would have that preference. But I must say, it’s a little off-putting and leaves me wondering why you messaged me in the first place.
But wait, I DO know why you messaged me: “just because Italian food is my favorite, that doesn’t mean I don’t eat Chinese every now and then.”
Great analogy, kid. I totally get it now.
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Sorry, but I’m not interested in being your exotic departure.
Welp, here we go.
Third date with the same dude from Monday and Wednesday tonight, which is a major 2k12 accomplishment for me since I couldn’t seem to get a second, let alone third date to save my pathetic life.
Remember that time a dude “got sick” 1 hour into our date and I never heard from him again? Or that one dude that didn’t want to come in after the Ren Fest because he “had a headache” and I never heard from him again? Or that dude who I took to my favorite bar and he was all up in my shit, super into me but then I never heard from him again?
I’ve very good at dating yes/yes?
I’m in a committed long term open polyamorous relationship with a wonderful and amazing pansexual woman. While taken, I’m available to play and I am always interested in meeting new people. It keeps life interesting.
Good to know it’s not just women who have to deal with creeps on OK Cupid.
Q:Have you "upgraded to A-List" on OKC? It seems scammy / not worth it. Got invited to be a moderator though, I'm having way too much fun weeding out the assholes.
Now why on earth would I pay money to be ignored?
I normlly chill where ever life takes me. Right now im in school finishing up my degree in psychology. What makes me unique is im what everything a girl wanted.if you want to know more, hit me up.
The entirety of the profile of a dude who just sent me a message.

THIS JUST IN: online dating is depressing as fuck
Messaging people that never respond.
Getting messages from sub-humans.
Starting conversations that the other party abruptly abandons.
Starting conversations that you know aren’t going to go anywhere.
Meeting people that can at best be described as ‘bleh’.
Hanging out with someone and thinking you both had a good time but you never hear from them again.
I’m just… exhausted.
I mean, I agree but you ain’t gotta be such a Bitter Betty about it right there on the site, man.
“Ooo, let me message this sour ass dude right now to prove him wrong!” - no one.
Reading the profiles of men who message me on OK Cupid

